Fishing for Security

Turning this way and that in the dressing-room mirror, I let out a long sigh. This outfit did not look as good on me as it had in the catalogue.  Or on the headless mannequin. I bit my lip. A tell-tale sign I was becoming distressed. Next my fingernails would fly up into my mouth and I would undo all the progress I had made trying to grow them out. […]


Because You Exist

When we survey our culture and surroundings it doesn’t take long to realize why so many of us struggle with our identity and value in this world. Television, popularity symbols, movies, and even just going to the supermarket or shopping mall screams at us to improve ourselves, to buy more, to be more. We have mistakenly, and perhaps even unconsciously, placed more worth on the thing than on the person. […]


An Original

I have a knack for making awkward situations more awkward. Not in a cool trendy, “hey, I’m a total rebel and I’m doing this on purpose because I do what I want” kind of way though. It’s more like “hey, I’m socially awkward and am hoping you will misinterpret it as unconventional quirkiness… And then think I’m cool.” But that’s just me. Through junior high and high school I swung […]


A Single Disorder

For more years than I care to admit, I jumped from one relationship to the (often unstable) next relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I had morals and standards, but I just really didn’t like being by myself. It was boredom…or so I told myself. Although in the moment I tried not to analyze what was driving this need within me. In hindsight I realize it was a whole lot more […]


She Has Worth

Hey guys! Welcome to She Has Worth! I am so excited about this new project and have been praying about it for months. To those of you who are new: Welcome!  And to all of the wonderful male readers: I know, I know…the site is called SHE Has Worth. But I promise if you stick around we intend to develop some exciting projects and components for the men as well […]